Title: my struggle with anxiety and food choices

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Title: My Struggle with Anxiety and Food Choices

You know, it’s funny how something as basic as eating can get so complicated when anxiety steps in. I’ve always loved food—who doesn’t, right? But when anxiety comes into the picture, everything shifts. It’s like my brain decides to throw a big ol’ wrench into the gears of my meal choices.

I remember a time when I would stand in front of the fridge, staring at options, and suddenly feel this wave of pressure. All of a sudden, I was no longer just deciding what to eat; it felt like I was making a life-altering decision. Should I go for something healthy? What if I regret it later? But if I choose comfort food, am I just feeding my anxiety? It’s exhausting!

There are days when I crave something indulgent—pizza, ice cream, whatever sounds good. But then I get hit with this guilt, this little voice that tells me I should be “better” and make healthier choices. It’s like having an internal tug-of-war, and honestly, I’m so over it. Sometimes, I just want to eat without overthinking every bite.

I’ve started to notice that my food choices often reflect my mood. If I’m having a good day, I’m more likely to reach for something vibrant and fresh, like a colorful salad. But when anxiety strikes, it’s like I automatically gravitate toward carbs and sweets—those cozy, familiar comforts. It’s almost like I’m trying to soothe myself, but then I end up feeling even worse afterward. It’s such a frustrating cycle.

Lately, I’ve been working on being kinder to myself regarding my food choices. I try to remind myself that it’s okay to indulge sometimes and that food isn’t inherently “bad.” I’ve also started journaling about my feelings around food and anxiety, which has helped me unpack why I react the way I do. It’s a journey, but I’m slowly learning to listen to my body rather than let anxiety dictate what I should eat.

I’m curious if anyone else feels this way! How do you navigate your food choices when anxiety kicks in? Do you have any tips or strategies that have helped you find a balance? I’d love to hear your thoughts!

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That sounds really challenging, and I want you to know that I can totally relate to your struggle. It’s wild how something as fundamental as eating can become so intertwined with our emotions, especially when anxiety is involved. It’s like our brains turn a simple choice into a major decision, right?

I’ve definitely experienced that same internal tug-of-war. There have been times when I’ve stood in front of the pantry, feeling completely paralyzed by the options. It’s almost as if the pressure to “make the right choice” creates this added layer of anxiety. And then there’s the guilt that follows—like, why does enjoying a slice of pizza sometimes feel like a betrayal to myself?

I love that you’ve started journaling about your feelings toward food. It’s such a powerful tool! Writing has helped me gain insight into my own relationship with food and emotions, too. Have you found any specific prompts or topics that resonate with you more than others? I’ve noticed that, for me, reflecting on how certain foods make me feel afterward can be enlightening.

It sounds like you’re making great strides in being kinder to yourself, which is so important. I think it’s amazing that you’re recognizing the connection between your mood and your food choices. When I’m having a rough day, I often gravitate towards those comfort foods as well. It’s like a mini emotional hug, isn’t it? But like you mentioned, the aftermath can sometimes leave us feeling even more drained.

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What you’re describing really resonates with me. It’s wild how something as simple as choosing what to eat can turn into such a huge emotional event. I’ve had my own battles with anxiety, and I totally get that internal tug-of-war you mentioned. It’s like our minds take these ordinary moments and turn them into a high-stakes game.

I’ve found myself in front of the fridge too, feeling that same pressure. Sometimes, I’d stand there, completely paralyzed by the choice, and it felt like I was picking between two life-altering paths. Should I go with a solid, healthy option, or lean into the comfort of something that instantly makes me feel better, like a slice of pizza? It’s exhausting, isn’t it?

I love how you’re trying to be kinder to yourself, especially with the journaling. That’s such a fantastic way to process those feelings! I’ve started journaling too, and it helps me untangle my thoughts. It’s amazing how putting pen to paper can make those swirling emotions feel a bit more manageable.

It’s interesting to hear how your food choices reflect your mood. I’ve noticed similar patterns in my life. On good days, I crave nourishing foods, but when anxiety kicks in, I’m right there with you, reaching for those comforting carbs. It’s like a quick fix in the moment, but then the guilt can really weigh you down afterward.

One thing that’s helped me is giving myself permission

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I really appreciate you sharing this because it resonates with me on so many levels. The way you describe that tug-of-war with food choices is something I think a lot of people feel, but it’s not always easy to put into words. Eating should be a simple pleasure, but when anxiety steps in, it can feel like a minefield.

I’ve had those fridge-staring moments too, where it feels like the weight of the world is resting on which snack I’m about to choose. It’s like my brain takes that simple decision and turns it into a high-stakes situation. Trying to find a balance between what feels good in the moment and what I think I “should” be eating can be so draining.

I love how you’ve started journaling about your feelings around food. That’s such a powerful way to explore your relationship with it! I’ve found that reflecting on my choices helps me to understand what triggers my cravings. Sometimes it’s about comfort, other times it’s boredom or stress. It’s amazing how much our emotions can play into what we reach for.

One thing that works for me is trying to plan my meals ahead of time, so when anxiety does hit, I don’t have to make a choice in that moment. Having a few easy, healthy options prepped can take some of the pressure off. But I also try to keep a few of those indulgent treats on hand too—there’s absolutely nothing wrong with a little pizza or ice cream! It

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That sounds really challenging, and I want you to know that you’re definitely not alone in this. I can totally relate to how anxiety can complicate something as simple as eating. It’s wild how a daily routine can become this intense mental battle, right?

I’ve been there, staring at my fridge, feeling like I’m on the verge of making a major life decision over what to grab for lunch. I get that internal tug-of-war too—part of me wants to enjoy that slice of pizza, and yet there’s this nagging voice telling me I should be more “responsible.” It’s exhausting and frustrating.

I love that you’re working on being kinder to yourself. That shift in mindset can be so liberating. I remember when I started to give myself permission to indulge without the guilt. It’s like, food is meant to be enjoyed! Finding that balance can be tricky, but it sounds like your journaling is a fantastic step. Reflecting on those feelings can really help unravel the knots we tie ourselves in.

I’ve found that trying to create a sort of “no guilt” zone around food has helped me too. Sometimes, I’ll plan a meal that’s both comforting and nutritious, but on days when anxiety creeps in, I just try to focus on the experience of eating rather than the choice itself. Do you think that kind of approach might work for you?

Also, I’ve started experimenting with cooking new recipes just for fun. It helps

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I can really relate to what you’re saying. It’s wild how something as simple as eating can turn into this intricate puzzle when anxiety gets involved. I’ve had my fair share of those fridge-staring moments myself, where every option feels like a huge decision. It’s like your mind just spirals into overdrive—one moment you’re just thinking about lunch, and the next you’re caught in this whirlwind of guilt and second-guessing.

I totally get the tug-of-war you’re describing. There’s this comfort in indulgent foods that feels like a hug during tough times, but then there’s that nagging voice reminding you about “better” choices. It makes it hard to just enjoy the moment. I’ve found that sometimes, giving myself permission to treat myself can actually make a big difference. It’s not about shoving the healthy stuff aside, but rather finding a balance that feels right for you—like creating space for both comfort and nourishment.

Your idea of journaling is fantastic! Just putting pen to paper can really help bring clarity. I started doing that too, and it’s eye-opening to see patterns in my thoughts and feelings. Sometimes, I find that my cravings tie back to emotions I didn’t even realize I was carrying. It’s incredible how our minds can reflect our mood through food choices.

When anxiety creeps in, I like to remind myself that it’s okay to have those cozy comfort meals. Maybe even trying to incorporate healthier versions of the things

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I can really relate to what you’re saying. It’s amazing how something as essential as food can become so complicated when anxiety is involved. I’ve definitely been there—standing in front of the fridge, feeling that pressure. It’s like suddenly everything is a life-or-death decision, right?

I love how you described that internal tug-of-war. It’s a battle I know all too well. There are days when I want to treat myself to something delicious, but then that guilt creeps in. It’s like our brains are trying to protect us but end up making everything feel heavier. I think it’s great that you’re working on being kinder to yourself. That’s such an important step!

I’ve found that when I’m in a good place mentally, I tend to make choices that feel nourishing and right for my body. But on those tougher days, it’s definitely easier to lean into comfort foods. I completely understand that cycle of wanting to soothe yourself but then feeling worse afterward. It’s frustrating, for sure!

Journaling sounds like a wonderful idea! I’ve tried it too, and it’s really helped me identify patterns in my relationship with food and my emotions. Do you find that writing things down brings you any clarity? I’ve started to notice that sometimes, just naming the emotions I’m feeling can take away some of their power.

As for tips, I’ve started to give myself permission to enjoy food without guilt—whether it’s pizza or a salad

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I appreciate you sharing this because it really resonates with me. The struggle between wanting to enjoy food and feeling that pressure from anxiety is so relatable. I remember moments when I’d stand at the pantry, frozen, feeling overwhelmed by the choices in front of me. It’s like our brains decide to turn something so simple into a major life decision, right?

I think it’s wonderful that you’re working on being kinder to yourself. That’s such an important step! I’ve found that giving myself permission to indulge—in a balanced way, of course—has made a big difference. It’s so easy to fall into that guilt trap, especially when we have this internal dialogue that tells us we should be “better.” I realized that food is meant to be enjoyed, and it’s okay to savor those comforting dishes without the baggage.

Your insight about how your mood influences your food choices really struck a chord with me. I notice that too! On days when I’m feeling lighter, I gravitate toward vibrant meals, but when anxiety settles in, it’s like I automatically reach for the comfort foods that feel safe. It’s almost like our bodies have learned to seek out those familiar comforts when things get tough.

Journaling sounds like a fantastic way to unpack those feelings. I’ve tried it myself, and it really helps to see those thoughts laid out on paper. It can be eye-opening to recognize patterns and understand what triggers certain cravings. Have you found any specific prompts that resonate with you while

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I completely get where you’re coming from! It’s wild how something that should be so simple can turn into a battleground for our minds. I’ve definitely had those moments standing in front of the fridge, too, feeling completely overwhelmed by the options. It’s like my brain flips a switch, and suddenly it feels like I’m on a game show trying to avoid the wrong answer.

What you said about your food choices reflecting your mood really resonates with me. I’ve noticed similar patterns in my own life. On good days, I’m all about those vibrant meals, but when anxiety creeps in, it’s like I’m magnetically drawn to all the comforting carbs—pizza, chocolate, you name it. It’s almost like a way to cope, isn’t it? But then the guilt can be such a heavy weight, and it’s frustrating to feel that cycle tightening around you.

I think it’s incredible that you’re working on being kinder to yourself. That’s such an important step! Giving ourselves permission to indulge without the guilt can really change the way we view food. Journaling sounds like a great tool, too. I often find that writing things down helps me untangle my thoughts, especially when it comes to those tricky feelings around food and anxiety.

Have you found any particular journaling prompts or techniques that work well for you? I’m always curious about what has helped others. And do you ever find that talking about these experiences with friends or loved ones helps ease that pressure

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I totally relate to what you’re going through! It’s wild how something as simple as food can turn into a battlefield when anxiety is involved. I’ve experienced those moments of standing in front of the fridge, feeling like I’m staring down a life-altering decision. It’s almost like the pressure magnifies everything—what used to be a fun choice suddenly feels like a heavy weight.

I’ve found that my cravings tend to shift based on my mood, too. On good days, I’m all about colorful, nourishing meals, but as soon as anxiety steps in, it’s like I’m on autopilot, reaching for the comforting carbs and sweets. It’s almost like I’m trying to hug the anxiety away with pizza, but then, like you mentioned, that guilt creeps in afterward. It’s such a tricky cycle.

I love that you’re leaning into kindness with yourself regarding food choices. That’s such an important step! It’s so easy to get caught up in the guilt-trap of “shoulds” and “shouldn’ts,” but recognizing that food isn’t inherently good or bad is a game changer. I’ve found that when I allow myself to enjoy an indulgence without judgment, it actually helps me feel more balanced overall.

Journaling sounds like a fantastic way to unpack your feelings! I’ve dabbled in that too and it can provide such clarity. Sometimes just writing down what I’m feeling around food helps me understand those underlying triggers. I wonder

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What you’re describing really resonates with me. It’s amazing how something as simple as eating can turn into a mental battleground when anxiety kicks in. I’ve definitely been there—standing in front of the fridge, feeling like I’m about to make the biggest decision of my life. It’s wild how food can carry so much weight, both literally and emotionally.

I love that you’re starting to be kinder to yourself about your choices. It’s so easy to get caught up in that guilt spiral, especially when we’ve been conditioned to think there’s a “right” way to eat. Your idea of journaling about your feelings around food sounds like a fantastic way to dig deeper into what’s really going on. There’s something really powerful in putting pen to paper and just letting those thoughts flow. Have you noticed any particular insights that stood out to you?

I totally relate to that craving for comfort food when anxiety hits. It’s like those carbs and sweets have a way of wrapping us in a warm blanket, right? But then, as you mentioned, the aftermath can feel heavy, and it’s such a frustrating cycle. I’ve found that allowing myself those indulgences—without the guilt—sometimes helps me break that pattern. I try to remind myself that food is meant to be enjoyed, not just a source of stress.

Have you found any specific meals or snacks that help you feel more balanced when anxiety is creeping in? For me, I’ve started experimenting with mindful eating practices, like

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Hey there,

I really appreciate you sharing your experience—it’s something I can definitely relate to. I’ve found that when anxiety creeps in, it really does complicate something as simple as eating, doesn’t it? I remember moments when I’d stand there, almost paralyzed by the choices in front of me, feeling like every decision was this monumental task rather than just a meal.

Your description of the internal tug-of-war is spot on. I sometimes feel that pull too; it’s like my brain is at war with itself. I crave that indulgent comfort, but then the guilt sets in, making it hard to just enjoy food without a side serving of anxiety. It can feel so unfair, can’t it?

I think it’s so great that you’re trying to be kinder to yourself about your choices. That’s a huge step! I’ve been working on that myself, trying to remind myself that food can be a source of pleasure rather than just a battlefield. Sometimes, I’ll even plan a little “treat” day where I allow myself to enjoy some of my favorite foods without the guilt. It’s a way to embrace that joy without letting anxiety steal it.

Journaling sounds like a fantastic tool. I’ve found writing about my feelings can really help me process them, especially around food and self-image. It’s a journey, just like you said, and I think it’s so important to celebrate those small victories along the way.

As for navigating choices during those anxious

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That sounds really challenging, and I want you to know that you’re not alone in feeling this way. It’s interesting how food, something meant to nourish us, can become such a source of stress, especially when anxiety gets involved. I can totally relate to that feeling of standing in front of the fridge, feeling like I’m about to make a life-altering decision. It’s almost like the pressure turns a simple meal into this monumental task.

I’ve definitely had my own experiences with food choices influenced by mood. Some days, I can eat whatever I want without a second thought, but on other days, I find myself frozen in indecision, overanalyzing what each option might mean for my day or even my week. It’s exhausting, right? That internal struggle of wanting comfort but also battling those nagging feelings of guilt can feel like a heavy weight.

I love that you’ve started journaling about your feelings! I started doing something similar a while back, and it was a game changer for me. Writing things down helps me make sense of my emotions, especially around food. It’s a way to unpack those layers of guilt and anxiety and really understand what’s driving my choices.

And I think your approach of being kinder to yourself is so important. Life is too short to deny yourself that slice of pizza or a scoop of ice cream simply because you think you should eat differently. It’s all about balance, and recognizing that sometimes, indulging can be part of taking care

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I totally hear you on this one. I’ve been through similar struggles with food and anxiety, and it’s such a tricky balance to strike. It’s wild how something as simple as a meal can morph into a huge decision when anxiety rears its head.

I remember times when I’d be staring at my pantry, feeling like I was facing the most monumental choice of my life. It’s almost like anxiety flips a switch, turning what should be a comforting experience into a battlefield. I feel you on that internal tug-of-war—it can be so draining.

I’ve noticed, too, how my mood can heavily influence what I reach for. On good days, I’ll whip up something fresh and exciting, but when anxiety creeps in, it’s like my brain defaults to those comforting, heavy foods. I often think of them as that warm blanket you want to wrap yourself in when the world feels overwhelming. But then, like you said, there’s that wave of guilt that trails behind it, and it can feel like a vicious cycle.

The idea of journaling about your feelings around food is such a great approach. I’ve found that getting my thoughts down on paper often reveals patterns I hadn’t noticed before. It’s like peeling back the layers of why I reach for certain foods in different moods. I think that self-compassion you’re cultivating is so important. It’s a tough road, but giving yourself the grace to enjoy food without the guilt is essential.

As for finding

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What you’re describing reminds me so much of my own experiences with anxiety and food. It’s wild how something that should be so simple can turn into a battleground, isn’t it? I completely resonate with that feeling of standing in front of the fridge, feeling like I’m making a life-altering decision. It’s like the stakes get raised so high, and suddenly, it becomes about so much more than just a meal.

I’ve definitely had those days where all I want is something comforting, like a slice of pizza or a scoop of ice cream, and then the guilt comes crashing in. It feels so unfair to have that internal voice judging every choice, especially when food is supposed to be a source of joy and nourishment. I admire how you’re working on being kinder to yourself! That’s such an important step. I’ve found that when I allow myself those indulgences without guilt, it actually helps me feel more in control.

Your journaling sounds like a fantastic way to unpack those feelings. I’ve started doing something similar, and it’s amazing how writing things down can give perspective. It’s almost like you’re letting your thoughts breathe. Have you noticed any patterns in what triggers those anxiety-fueled food choices for you?

I’ve been experimenting with intuitive eating as well, trying to listen to my body rather than relying on that anxious voice. Some days are definitely easier than others. When I’m feeling good, it’s so much easier to pick something nourishing, but on

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Hey there,

I really resonate with what you’re saying. I’ve been through a similar struggle, and it’s wild how food can turn into this battlefield when anxiety is lurking around. I remember standing in front of the fridge, just like you described, feeling torn between a desire for something nourishing and the pull of comfort food. It’s like my brain goes into overdrive, analyzing every option as if it’s a life-or-death choice.

The guilt can be so heavy, can’t it? It’s almost like we put ourselves on this tightrope, trying to balance between being “good” and just enjoying what we love. I’ve definitely had those days where I reach for the pizza or ice cream, thinking it’ll make everything better, only to be hit with a wave of disappointment afterward. It’s really a tough cycle to break.

I admire that you’ve started journaling about your feelings around food and anxiety. That’s such a powerful step! It’s amazing how writing things down can help us process our emotions and uncover the roots of our habits. I’ve found that when I take a moment to reflect on why I’m craving certain foods, it sometimes reveals a bigger picture about my emotional state.

I’ve also tried to give myself permission to enjoy food without the weight of guilt. Sometimes I’ll plan for a treat on a specific day, so it feels more like a celebration rather than a guilty pleasure. It’s about creating that balance, right? And those days when you

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Your post really resonates with me. It’s interesting how something as simple as food can become such a complex part of our lives, especially when it gets tangled up with anxiety. I remember a time, not too long ago, when I found myself pacing in front of the pantry, feeling that same pressure you described. It’s almost like the fridge door becomes a portal to a thousand decisions, and suddenly, I’m questioning everything about what to put on my plate.

I get that internal tug-of-war you mentioned. It’s tough to balance the comfort of those indulgent foods with the nagging voice that tells us we should be making “better” choices. I’ve learned that it’s okay to lean into those comfort foods sometimes, especially when they bring a bit of joy amidst the chaos. Life can be too short to deny ourselves those little pleasures, right?

I love that you’re journaling about your feelings around food and anxiety. That’s such a powerful tool! Writing can really help us sift through the noise in our minds and find clarity, and it sounds like it’s helping you tune into your body’s needs. Listening to ourselves, rather than letting anxiety take the lead, is no small feat, but it’s encouraging to hear you’re on that path.

When I find myself feeling anxious about food choices, I try to remind myself that it’s all about balance, not perfection. Somedays, I might indulge a bit more, and other days, I’ll opt for

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Hey there,

I completely relate to what you’re going through. I’ve had my own battles with anxiety, and it’s interesting how it can turn something as simple as choosing what to eat into a huge mental workout. I remember standing in my kitchen and feeling that same pressure. It sometimes feels like every meal holds some sort of judgment, and it really takes the joy out of eating, doesn’t it?

It’s heartening to hear that you’re working on being kinder to yourself. I think that’s a big step! When I started journaling too, it was a game changer for me. It’s like giving those swirling thoughts a place to land instead of letting them overtake my mind. Have you noticed any specific patterns in your journaling? Sometimes, those little insights can be so revealing.

You mentioned something really powerful about how your mood affects your choices. I’ve noticed that too. On those good days, I gravitate toward healthier options, while on tougher days, I just want the comfort of carbs. It’s interesting how food can serve as both a source of comfort and, at times, a source of guilt. Finding that balance is tricky, and I think it’s great that you’re exploring it.

If I may suggest, when you feel that tug-of-war between healthy choices and comfort food, maybe try focusing on the experience of eating itself. Like, savoring each bite of whatever you choose, rather than letting anxiety dictate how you feel about it afterward. Sometimes,

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I appreciate you sharing this because it resonates deeply with me. I used to think that food was just about sustenance, but when anxiety enters the chat, it turns into this whole other beast, doesn’t it? I remember those moments standing in front of the fridge, feeling like I was on the verge of making a monumental decision—like I was about to change the course of my life with a choice between salad or pizza.

When I’m in a good place, it’s so easy to choose vibrant, wholesome meals, but anxiety can cloud that clarity in an instant. I completely get what you mean about comfort foods; they’re like a warm hug when everything feels chaotic. But that inner critic definitely knows how to show up at the worst times, doesn’t it? I sometimes catch myself thinking, “Why am I even eating this?” It’s exhausting, as you said.

I’ve also found journaling to be a game-changer. It’s like uncovering layers of why I reach for certain foods in certain moods. It’s wild how much our emotional state can influence those choices. Recently, I tried to implement a little “no guilt” rule for myself. If I eat something indulgent, I remind myself that it’s completely okay to enjoy it without the guilt tag. It’s been liberating in many ways.

Have you considered trying to create some kind of food mantra? Something that reminds you to honor your cravings while also being mindful of how they make you feel afterward? I

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What you’re describing really resonates with me. I’ve had my own battles with food and how anxiety plays a role in those choices. It’s wild how something as simple as a meal can turn into this massive decision-making event, right? I remember standing in front of the fridge like you mentioned, feeling that pressure as if I was deciding my future.

Your struggles with that internal tug-of-war are all too familiar. There are definitely days when I dive into the comfort food because it feels like a hug, only to be left feeling heavy and guilty afterward. It’s like we’re operating under this unspoken rule that we have to justify our cravings or be “better” in our choices. I think a lot of us can relate to that cycle of seeking comfort yet ending up feeling worse.

I admire how you’ve started to be kinder to yourself about your food choices. That’s such an important step! I’ve found that journaling, like you mentioned, can be a powerful tool. It’s amazing how writing down those feelings helps me see the patterns and understand my triggers a bit better. Have you noticed any specific themes in your journaling that have surprised you?

I’ve also tried to focus on the idea of moderation—allowing myself to enjoy the pizza or ice cream without the guilt. It’s tough, but I think the more we can break that cycle of guilt, the more we can find a balanced relationship with food. Do you have any small rituals or practices that help you when anxiety