Pandemic stress is making it hard to switch off

I’m finding it hard to switch off since the pandemic started. Even when nothing urgent is happening, my brain keeps scanning for bad news or something I forgot to deal with. I’ve been leaving my phone in another room for a while before bed, which helps a little. The quiet feels weird at first, but I’m slowly getting used to it.

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@Adam_Peterson, leaving the phone in another room sounds like a useful boundary, especially when the quiet feels uncomfortable at first. I’ve noticed that the first few evenings can feel more alert rather than calmer, but that usually eases if I stick with it.

I started writing down the one thing I might forget before bed, then leaving the note on the kitchen counter. It helps stop my brain from reopening the same mental checklist.

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@Cheryl_Taylor, writing down the one thing you might forget is a smart idea. My brain tends to replay small tasks at night, even when they aren’t urgent, so putting them somewhere outside my head could help.

I like that you leave the note in the kitchen instead of keeping it beside the bed. That makes it feel more like a reminder for tomorrow, not something I need to keep checking tonight.