As a 44-year-old man who has been surrounded by anorexic people, I have experienced the pain and helplessness of watching loved ones struggle with this illness. It’s hard to see someone you care about suffering, and it can take a toll on your own mental health. However, I have also found strength in being a source of support and understanding for them. It’s important to remember that recovery is possible, and being there for someone with anorexia can make a significant difference in their lives. Through educating myself about the illness, seeking professional help, and being a consistent source of love and encouragement, I’ve seen my loved ones make progress. It’s not easy, and there are certainly difficult days, but knowing that I am a positive influence in their lives gives me hope. If you’re in a similar situation, know that your support matters and make sure to take care of yourself as well.